Waitlisted or Deferred? Exactly What to Do Next

By the Dormbound team · Updated

A waitlist or deferral feels like limbo, but there are clear steps that help. Here is what to do for each, in order.

A deferral means an early application (Early Action or Early Decision) moves to the Regular Decision pool to be reconsidered. A waitlist means the college may offer you a spot later, usually after May 1, if admitted students decline. Neither is a no — but you have work to do for both.

If you were deferred

  1. 1

    Read the deferral letter carefully

    Note what the college asks for (mid-year grades, updates) and what it says not to send.

  2. 2

    Send a letter of continued interest

    Usually by late January or early February. Say why this college, what’s new, and — only if true — that it’s your first choice.

  3. 3

    Make sure your mid-year report is sent

    Ask your counselor to send first-semester senior grades as soon as they’re final. Strong grades matter here.

  4. 4

    Send meaningful updates

    New awards, leadership, test scores (if they help), or a project. Quality over quantity.

  5. 5

    Keep applying to your other colleges

    Finish Regular Decision applications on time — a deferral is not a promise.

  6. 6

    If this was Early Decision: know the rules

    If you’re admitted in Regular Decision, the ED agreement usually still binds you. Ask the college if you’re unsure.

If you were waitlisted

  1. 1

    Accept your spot on the waitlist

    Most colleges require you to opt in through the portal by a deadline — if you don’t, you’re not on it.

  2. 2

    Commit to another college by May 1

    Waitlist offers often come after May 1. Pay a deposit elsewhere so you’re guaranteed a place; you may lose it if you switch.

  3. 3

    Send a letter of continued interest

    One page: why this college, what’s new since you applied, and — only if true — that you’d enroll if admitted.

  4. 4

    Send real updates

    New grades, awards, leadership, or results. Follow the school’s instructions; skip extra recommendations unless invited.

  5. 5

    Ask your counselor to advocate for you

    A call or email from your counselor confirming your interest and recent achievements can help.

  6. 6

    Keep your senior grades strong

    Waitlist decisions often look at final-semester grades.

  7. 7

    Decide by June whether to stay on

    If you’ve grown to love your other college, withdraw so your spot goes to someone else.

How to write a letter of continued interest

Keep it to about one page, and send it the way the college asks (often the applicant portal):

  • Thank them and confirm you're still very interested.
  • Share what's new since you applied: grades, awards, leadership, results. Only real updates.
  • Give specific reasons this college fits you — classes, programs, people you met on a visit.
  • Say you would enroll if admitted only if that's true; colleges take it as a commitment.

Don't send extra recommendation letters or gifts unless the college invites them, and don't contact admissions more than the instructions allow.